Everyone has that one thing that will make or break their decision on whether to continue on to the second date or not. I’ve heard my share of deal breakers from girlfriends. Be it that their date had bad breath, bad tipper, bad attitude or bad kisser. The common theme is that it’s BAD and not something that they’re willing to overlook or to put in valuable time to fix or manage.
My end all say all deal breaker has and will always be smoking. I can’t stand the the price, taste, smell, health conditions or littering that come along with the habits of a smoker. There is nothing worse to me than the smell of my hair when it hits hot water in the shower after being with a smoker, or the fact that everything has to be washed and dry cleaned immediately after being with a smoker for 5 minutes. I mean I spend buku dollars on my perfume so that I smell fabulous only to be ruined. For me it’s easy to fix a guy with no style, or offer a breathe mint or even take the time to teach your new guy the way you like to be kissed. For a smoker, they don’t want to quit and have no problem with their unsanitary habit, if anything they see it as an annoyance that you find their habit bothersome.
I once attempted dating a smoker, it didn’t end well. It was a constant argument of having them not smoke when they were with me. Not to mention when I was grossed out sleeping over. Your mans sheets are suppose to smell divine, not like an ashtray. I would end up secretly throwing out full packages of cigarettes in hopes that he would stop. His smoking never stopped, but are relationship did.
The minute I find out someone I’m on a date with is a smoker, I have to have this awkward you’re really great and wonderful but this can’t go anywhere conversation and sometimes it sucks. But hey, everybody has their deal breaker.